12/23/10

Petition the American Psychiatric Association: Remove Transgender from Proposed Changes in the DSM-5

Becuse our Identities are Not Disordered

The DSM is regarded as the medical and social definition of mental disorder throughout North America and strongly influences international psychiatric nomenclature.

On January 10th, 2010, the American Psychiatric Association released proposed draft revisions for the Fifth Edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM-5) to be published May 2013.

Although the proposed changes for the DSM-5 has substituted "Incongruent" a less offensive word for "Dysphoria", the ramifications of this diagnosis still exists as illustrated recently by our exclusion from the DADT repeal.

Transgender people's civil rights advancement has been and will be severely limited by our diagnosis in DSM as mentally ill by the American Psychiatric Association.

Anti transgender organizations cornerstone evidence for our dehumanization is the DSM which links our identities with with autogynephilia and pedophilia. Without fail the roundhouse blow during our engagement with anti trans forces has been delivered by quoting the DSM prognosis of our 'mental illness'.

Our diverse gender identities are a natural gift, not a psychiatric disorder.

Petition site:
Change.org petition

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There are arguments we would be "cutting of our noses in spite of or faces" by getting our gender diversity de-listed in medical references as a treatable pathology. That is not my opinion. Why would a perfectly normal socialy functional human be satisfied with being labeled as mentally ill?

APA's DSM-5 Development Page


GID Reform WordPress

GID Reform.org

12/19/10

Transgender/Gay divorce proccess paper served: Mili*ary DADT Exclusion last straw!

PETITION FOR DISSOLUTION OF MARRIAGE:

This Petition is for dissolution of marriage and it is alleged on oath as follows:

1. Petitioner resides at Any street, Every Town, Every State and has resided there since at least 1706 and (90) days immediately prior to the filing of this Petition.

2. Petitioner and Respondent were shotgunned married during the 1990's resulting in the T being assimilated into the gay acronym GLB in the USA with the marriage being recognized worldwide.

3. The parties were separated on or before September 27, 2007 .

4. There are six identities born to or adopted by the Parties. The names and dates of birth are: Questioning, Bisexual, Intersex ,Asexual, Gender gifted, Gender Queer. All were born ? years BC. The trans complainant is now pregnant with multiple identities and expressions.

5. Petitioner and Respondent are enter into an Agreement resolving all issues of the marriage, which is recorded in their Identity Settlement Agreement and Child Care Plan, a true and correct copy of which is attached to this Complaint as Exhibit �A�.

6. Petitioner is mainly unemployed and underemployed, being discriminated against during and after transition. Respondent is usually employed not directly affected by sexual affinity in the work place and now in the armed forces service of his/her country.

7. There is no reasonable likelihood that the marriage between Petitioner and Respondent can be preserved, and therefore, the marriage is irretrievably broken.

WHEREFORE, Petitioner prays for its orders:

a. dissolving the marriage between the Petitioner and Respondent;

b. dividing the marital properly between Petitioner and Respondent according to law and settling all marital and non-marital identity and expression issues of the parties and resolving child issues as specified in the attached Property Settlement Agreement and Child Care Plan;

c. and granting such other and further relief as to this Court seems just and proper in the circumstances.

Petitioner wishes to retain the umbrella identity of Transgender and not be associated with the name of "gay" or "gay agenda" upon the date of the divorce.



Transsexual Community, USA___________________________________

Signature of Petitioner

EXIBIT A:

Gay people agree not to use transgender/transsexual peoples name or identity in organization names which do not have transgender people in membership or advocate for transgender corcerns. Drag performers will now be recognized with a "gay" name if the performer identifies themselves as cisgender.

Further more, gay people commit to discontinue using 'tranny' a slanderous pejorative for revenue and commercial purposes. Gay people also promise not to use pejoratives defaming trans people in cisgender media for the purposes of creating sensationalist extrinsic controversy intended to exacerbate discord within the divorced parties.

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Many in trans community, already up in arms after Congressman Barney Franks offered his latest deceptions regarding 2010 ENDA's debacle blaming gender issues. Meaning if, transgender people had not been written (Married to gay people) in in the first place ENDA would have succeeded. Many are now calling for this Divorce so I thought I would write this petition.

And now we get left out of theDAD* repeal!



I'll Tell you what is wrong!



Which dead son or daughter is GAY Transgender?


Our exclusion from DAD* tipped the scales. Weighed heavily already with trans activists anger over the continued attempted gay assimilation and profiteering at the expense of the people under the trans umbrella has many, including myself ask, what is needed to repair this relationship?

Really then, what are we trying to repair? At best trans people are in the receiving end of of this predatory relationship.

  • We are constantly attacked with pejoratives from many in the gay community.

    • We are constantly left out of the important national equal rights progress.

      • We are blamed for the failure of civil rights by unscrupulous gay politicians.

        • The self appointed 'supposed' leaders of the trans community have lied and deceived our community about ENDA proving they are in bed with the gay power brokers.

            Sometimes goodbye is a hello. Hello to true allies who would not exclude us who would not use our accpation as a pity tool to raise money for there agenda not parody us as comical jester like clowns in booze fired fundraisers?

            When those we hold the dearest are the ones who harm us the most it's time for a change. Just ask my biological 'family', wherever they are. They could confirm I am strong enough personally to present and be faithful to a commitment for divorce.

            Its time for our trans family to do the same. We want a divorce.
          • 12/17/10

            TIME Blog, USA

            ….Transsexual International Media Examiner…. TIME blog

            Trans group forms to combat defamation and it’s about TIME!

            Source Timeblog.org

            (For group specifics and mission statement click the ‘about us’ page
            for instructions to become a contributor)

            Invitation to form and participate with TIMEblog.org A Trans
            identified and led group of advocate journalists from Australia, New
            Zealand, Canada and United States of American.

            I am writing you because of our shared passion that transgender people
            be treated with dignity.

            How many times have we been assailed by gay media with the word
            ‘tranny’ being used as a pejorative?

            How any times have we responded individually hoping for a larger
            transender community response to back us up on a offenders blog?

            How many times have we as a community been gang raped by gay media in
            articles purportedly desiring goodwill dialogue with trans people that
            in realty were thinly disguised efforts crafted to antagonize and
            dehumanize us?

            How many times have you felt as I have, powerless, when responding on
            my blog knowing good and well I was only reaching 1/10th of the
            audience as the offending gay blog?

            How many times have we watched mainstream media pickup on gay media’s
            predatory practices, parrot the offending gay media’s offensive
            behaviour therby gaining attention exponentially.

            How many times have you shared my sense of disempowerment when the gay
            organization GLAAD, as admirable an ally as they are, is the only
            organization to speak for transgender people?

            How often have we been frustrated by GLAAD’s unwillingness to confront
            Gay people and groups who are presently allowed to defame trans people
            with impunity?

            We will confront gay media without hesitation with every tool avaliable.

            I have conducted a survey of trans identified people on TransAction
            ConVergence. The results http://bit.ly/gLVkl4 of this survey provides
            us with a mandate to speak on behalf of the trans community.

            One tenet of TIME will be our vocal objection to ‘tranny’ being used
            in Cisgender media no matter whether gay or hetero.

            We will voice condemnation when religious groups denigrate us. Their
            misrepresentation and defamation of trans people in religious media is
            a major factor in for our present position in society.

            There will be occasions when issuance of statements and blog posts
            will be insufficient to bring about change. In these instances we will
            initiate email campaigns, letters to the editor of local papers and
            phone calls.

            If all else fails, protests are the last option and will be done if possiable.

            The group will be called ‘transsexual’ because the survey indicated
            that moniker is most favored for people who identify under the trans
            umbrella.

            We will further identify ourselves as exactly how we identify in the
            ‘About page’. I would like to include a contributors (thats you) page.
            You will be given the option to upload a picture and be as forthcoming
            as possiable about yourself and where you live. Remember, visibility
            is one our greatest tools in creating a sense of familiarity with and
            acceptance from cisgender people.

            Also, posting detailed information about yourself will help to silence
            our detractors of which there will undoubtedly be many and be
            forewarned, you may be targeted with misinformation and personal
            attacks, some even comming from own community!

            As a organization, banding together transgender bloggers and activists
            and armed with factual evidence of transgender sensitivities we will
            dismantle gay misogony and hetero transphobia in media. As never
            before we will have a voice.

            I see a organization run by individual bloggers and activists
            belonging to Timeblog.org each acting autonomously, Each possessing
            her/his unique abilities and passions cross posting from their own
            blogs on Time. Each contributor will be empowered with equal abilities
            to issue statements on behalf of TIME when necessary, condeming or
            commending.

            A core group of officers led by myself will reserve the authority to
            censure and/or remove contributors who do not understand the purpose
            of or abuse TIME.

            Our power united we will easily overcome our singular adversaries.
            Together we can do this.

            Hoping you will join this endeavour. We are nothing without you.

            We are unstoppable with you.

            Love,

            kelli Anne Busey
            Its about TIME!

            Battered South African lesbian petitions Justice Minister to criminalize 'corrective rape' from safe house

            Earlier this year Millicent Gaika, a 30-year-old South African woman, was tied up, beaten, strangled, tortured and raped for five hours by a man as he screamed that he would “cure” Millicent of her lesbianism.

            Ndumie Funda, a local community activist whose lesbian partner was murdered in the course of a similar “corrective rape,” reached out to Millicent through a small local charity she set up to rescue and support survivors of “corrective rape.” But last month they both had to go into hiding after the South African government released the perpetrator they had helped to jail on 60 rand (less than $10) bail.
            Ndumie, Millicent and others decided to fight back against the rapists and the lack of accountability for their crimes.

            From a Cape Town safehouse for survivors of ‘corrective rape,’ the women created a petition on Change.org targeting South African Justice Minister Jeffrey Radebe.

            Please, they wrote, declare 'corrective rape' a hate crime, which would both empower and require South African police to take a harder line on the vicious crime.
            Click here to add your name to the petition.



            More than 500 “corrective rapes” are reported in South Africa each year, and more than 30 South African lesbians have been murdered because of their sexuality over the past decade. Worse, for every 100 men charged with rape in South Africa, 96 of them walk free.

            We can help here. Last year, South Africa's National Prosecuting Authority went on record refusing to formally declare 'corrective rape' a hate crime, saying "It is not something that the South African government has prioritized as a specific project."

            But with enough international pressure on the South African government, such heinous crimes might finally be taken seriously. More than 2,000 Change.org members have added their name to the petition created by Ndumie and Millicent. Click here to add yours:
            http://www.change.org/petitions/view/south_africa_declare_corrective_rape_a_hate-crime?alert_id=SlPqUMmEGV_WMWTjCocJQ&me=aa


            Thank you for taking action,
            - The Change.org Team

            P.S. Every time a new person signs the petition, the Justice Minister’s office automatically gets an email. So once you join, will you forward this to friends and family, and post on Facebook, so that they hear a global outcry?

            12/10/10

            Kicked off "Outcast Island" Transman Reality


            Gay people, this is reality and it's not new or a show.



            Transmen experence unique, extremly stressful personal issues especially early in transition. Unexpected and sometimes fatal is to be accepted by family, religion and cisgender heterosexual society only to suffer attacks on the essence of our morality and the rational for transition questioned and perverted by the people we once considered our dearest friends and confidants!

            Gay Transphobia for trans people is being cast adrift from 'OutCast Island' is as a leper is to the "clean".

            12/7/10

            WikiLeaks Fight for Life Internet Access Denied: Become a Mirror Site Keep it Alive!

            Do you beleive now as I once did the Internet was our last frontier? One space we could express ourselves freely without govermental infringing on our global freedom of speech?

            I learned the hard way, we are watched. This blog was once shut down for three weeks after I exposed Congressman Barney Franks longtime employment of male prostitutes (rentboys) and how he avoided censure and deflected criticism begining a regiment of derogatory commentary about a even less accepted minority, transgender people. Thus began Franks statements then welcomed by misogynist and transphobes, now infamous and politically suicidal 'men with penis's in the ladies room'.

            I would still be silent had it not been for the Internet uproar created by fellow bloggers which caused this server to allow me access again.

            WikiLeaks need us to do the same for them now.

            There are 500 hundred DNS servers which is Short for Domain Name System (or Service or Server), an Internet service that translates domain names into IP addresses. Because domain names are alphabetic, they're easier to remember. The Internet however, is really based on IP addresses. Every time you use a domain name, therefore, a DNS service must translate the name into the corresponding IP address. For example, the domain name www.example.com might translate to 198.105.232.4.

            Today Wikileaks encountered a new form of censorship that should make all of us shudder. Rather than being shutdown at the web hosting level, EveryDNS shutdown the wikleaks.org domain name.

            What we can do.

            The easyest is displaying the Wiikleak picture or embed the code as I have done, on your web site.

            There is a blogspot called (untill it is also shutdown) Wilileaks Mirror List.
            which has instructions on how we can be of help. Our participation is not without danger. You may also be shut down, but without us holding the worlds goverment accountable for our freedoms with the Internet we only know what they wish us to.

            The full list of more than 700 mirrors is under the Mirrors tab on each of the sites listed below...
            wikileaks.ch - Official Wikileaks Page
            wikileaks.fi - Mirror Finland [46.59.1.2]
            wikileaks.nl - Mirror Netherlands [46.59.1.2]
            wikileaks.de - Mirror Germany [88.80.13.160]
            wikileaks.eu - Mirror Europe [88.80.13.160]
            wikileaks.pl - Mirror Poland [88.80.13.160]
            wikileaks.at - Mirror Austria [46.59.1.2]
            wikileaks.lu - Mirror Luxembourg [46.59.1.2]
            wikileaks.se - Mirror Sweden [88.80.6.179]
            wikileaks.no - Mirror Norway [46.59.1.2]
            wikileaks.is - Mirror Iceland [46.59.1.2]
            nyud.net - Mirror United States [129.170.214.192]
            wikileaks.ca - Mirror Canada [46.59.1.2]
            wikileaks.info - Mirror of previous leaks [62.2.16.94]Important Wikileaks Links
            twitter.com/wikileaks - Official Wikileaks Twitter Page
            facebook.com/wikileaks - Official Wikileaks Facebook Page

            Get on it! CUTTING EDGE ADVOCACY!

            12/1/10

            New Allies: Southern Poverty Law Center lists 18 anti LGBT org.s as Hate Groups

            Allies in the transgender struggle for equality are among our most valued assets. So when a organization that has long fought on the side of minorities declares our most venomous detractors 'Hate groups' we take notice, as does the whole of humanity.

            The SPLC definition of a GLBT hate group "... the SPLC’s listings of these groups is based on their propagation of known falsehoods — claims about LGBT people that have been thoroughly discredited by scientific authorities — and repeated, groundless name-calling. Viewing homosexuality as unbiblical does not qualify organizations for listing as hate groups."

            On the list is Concerned Woman for America which repeatedly consigned transgender, men and predator to the same sentence when informing it's membership about ENDA and Hate Crime Laws....

            "That means that transgenders in these states who are residents and/or public employees may enter any restroom. But what about men (predators) who might pretend to be transgendered in order to exploit the vulnerability of women and children?"

            "Everyday places where men/boys could be allowed in ladies’ restrooms are: schools (all grade levels), churches (unless there is a religious exemption in the law), daycares, fitting rooms, drug stores, libraries, swimming facilities, fitness clubs, child game stores, and shopping malls."

            "In other words — any public restroom in any public place is covered by this law."

            "The most dangerous bill, however, is the federal bill, the Employment Non-Discrimination Act (ENDA). This law will apply to all states and change the face of American society. The Obama Administration lists this law under “civil rights.”

            It’s a law that pretends to respect a few while endangering women and children on a psychological level — if not a physical level. Men (predator or transgender) will be able to intrude in the most private of places."
            Not provided in this groups position statement is proof. Not one incident is documented to lend credence to it's fear mongering tactics.

            Thank you SPLC. It is important these groups are exposed for what they are, hate groups.

            11/29/10

            The Trentonian newspaper's Christmas Kick in the Teeth with 'Tranny' headline

            Original story follows this update.

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            Updated Dec 01, 2010: The Trentonian newspaper replaces 'tranny' in headline with 'transgender'.

            The Newspaper evidently unaware of the problematic nature of the word 'tranny' made the change after being alerted by GLAAD which linked this article in it's announcement.

            I would like to thank the Trentonian on behalf of the majority of trans folk who were offended by this pejorative and for your making this correction so quickly. Thank you GLAAD and Aaron Nobel, Merry Christmas!

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            Original story published Nov 29, 2010:

            The Trentonian headline published Sunday, November 28, 2010 reads "Trannies rejoice because they're finding jobs at Goodwill store."

            In a holiday slap down aimed at trans people the Trentonian headlined this article with the pejorative 'tranny' ignoring the LGBT media guide ostensibly to rejoice in there good fortune.

            Aaron Nobel's insidious intent.

            The Trentonian's editor, Aaron Nobel knew it would be a win-win. He knew that a New Jersey newspapers story about transgender people in California would probably create little or no interest among his normal readership, and evidenced by it lack of recommendations, he was correct.

            The Trentonian's editor is not ignorant about the harm he's doing.

            Aaron Nobel knew this article would intense create controversy since this pejorative used once in the headline would elicit intense immediate condemnation from many trans activists, such as myself.

            Aaron Nobel also knew this article would be indignantly self righteously defended by a majority of LGBT and hetero readers as well as our unrelenting foe, the predacious misogynists, because the remainder of the story was well written, celebratory and respectful.

            As wonderfull as finding any job in these hard economic times are I have issues with this article because.....

            The employees were slandered since none of transgender people interviewed specifically identified as a 'tranny'. The word 'tranny' was not used again in the article.

            The headline suggests that 'trannies' would do very well to accept a minimum wage temporary retail job at a second hand store.

            The title suggests that transgender people should be eternally grateful for and satisfied with menial jobs.

            The title suggests a glass ceiling for transgender people, this being the most meaningful form of employment one could expect.

            The majority of trans people detest this word as shown in a recent survey we strongly perfer it not to be used by cisgender media, gay or hetreo.

            To put this into perspective.....

            I am a transgender woman who last year after two years of unemployment found a temporary position in retail much as these woman have.

            I have since been brought on permanent by this employer but survive at a pay rate 1/3 of the governments level for indigence.

            I have been denied employment in the field I previously held since I transitioned. This retail job is NOT all I am capable of and I deeply resent this newspapers headline which suggests it is.

            Merry Christmas Aaron Nobel.

            11/27/10

            Joe Rehyansky US Judge advocates for rape of military Lesbians


            A sitting judge Joe Rehyansky has been quoted as recommending allowing men rape woman whom they consider unresponsive sexually or gay.

            According to Pink News This US Judge would empower straight men to 'swing through the trees' and fuck woman by any means they deamed necessary.

            That's called rape, and it is the most odious of all offenses against humanity when used as a weapon of war. And a US JUDGE ADVOCATES THIS? OMG.
            More at The Raw Story.

            11/25/10

            GAY INC. Utah invites you to party with It's Drag 'Trannys'

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            London Wake UP! It's Kelli 'transphobic cultural imperialistic bigot' Busey Calling


            I'm being called a transatlantic capitalistic cultural imperialist because I objected to a drag queen partying at the London TDOR with a rendition of 'I'm a tra##y'. Well London peeps, some of your own country's trans folk are equally upset about this.

            I wouldn't have even know about it if it hadn't been for your own country woman's blog post expressing her abhorrence of what you did.

            I said essentially the same thing Helen did, but as is my style, I took it further, inflaming passions and yes even pushing the envelope of decency and creditability.

            But the essence of my objection remains valid and unanswered by your indignation.

            How can you justify so offending any portion of your community just to satisfy your sense of rebellion?

            Cultural Imperialism. Excuse me for jumping to avoid your jerking knees.

            The Internet has long been used to mix our nationalities unique sensitivities and create new social mores. We have all long 'capitalised' on that fact without any of the participants of the London TDOR before voicing there objections.

            Am I wrong about the 'T' word? Could be wouldn't be the last time. But here's the 'rub'.

            I use history as my tool to validate.


            The 'N' word at one time was used widely as a form of rebellion and self identity much as those who insist on using the 'T' word do now. At the height of the rioting the 'N' word was a battle cry, but ultimately it's usage was devastatingly detrimental.

            Since the pejorative 'ni##er' has become mainly unheard, POC and others are now being understood, loved and respected by each other as never before.

            After the 'T' word runs it course as he 'N' word did, history will be replayed and we will see the same results.

            I just hope some peeps do wake up so this doesn't take as long.

            11/23/10

            Tyjanae Moore focus of religious zealots hatred


            Dave Welch, spokesman for the Houston Area Pastor Council HAPC is a boldface liar. Dave Welch, pictured left, would see this woman Tyjanae Moore beaten, for gods sake!

            He knowingly made misleading statements about transgender people in the bible to support his desire that this woman, Tyjanae Moore be denied entrance to the woman's room and instead be forced to use the men's room and forced into extremly dangerous situations likely leading to physical violence.

            See video upper right or this link

            Tyjanae Moore in Houston Texas on November 17 was found and falsely jailed for using the ladies room. This brought out Dave Welsh, a right wing religious extremist who made statements that would have everyone beleive transgender people are something new and undefined in society and condemned by the bible.

            Nothing could be farther from the truth.

            In the old testament Isaiah 56 "Rewards for Obedience to God"

            3Let not the (F)foreigner who has joined himself to the LORD say,
            "The LORD will surely separate me from His people "
            Nor let the (G)eunuch say, "Behold, I am a dry tree."
            4For thus says the LORD,
            "To the eunuchs who (H)keep My sabbaths,
            And choose what pleases Me,
            And (I)hold fast My covenant,
            5To them I will give in My (J)house and within My (K)walls a memorial,
            And a name better than that of sons and daughters;
            I will give them an everlasting (L)name which (M)will not be cut off.

            In the new testament Mathew 19:11,12"

            11But He said to them, "(J)Not all men can accept this statement, but (K)only those to whom it has been given.

            12"For there are eunuchs who were born that way from their mother's womb; and there are eunuchs who were made eunuchs by men; and there are also eunuchs who made themselves eunuchs for the sake of the kingdom of heaven. He who is able to accept this, let him accept it."

            As a angel of the lord instructed a successful pastor to leave his congregations comfort and travel a desolate road, ours together less traveled, in Acts 8;

            "An Ethiopian (eunuch or trans person) Receives Christ"

            25So, when they had solemnly (AH)testified and spoken (AI)the word of the Lord, they started back to Jerusalem, and were (AJ)preaching the gospel to many villages of the (AK)Samaritans.
            26But (AL)an angel of the Lord spoke to (AM)Philip saying, "Get up and go south to the road that descends from Jerusalem to (AN)Gaza." (This is a desert road.)

            27So he got up and went; and (AO)there was an Ethiopian eunuch, a court official of Candace, queen of the Ethiopians, who was in charge of all her treasure; and he (AP)had come to Jerusalem to worship,

            28and he was returning and sitting in his chariot, and was reading the prophet Isaiah.

            29Then (AQ)the Spirit said to Philip, "Go up and join this chariot."

            30Philip ran up and heard him reading Isaiah the prophet, and said, "Do you understand what you are reading?"

            31And he said, "Well, how could I, unless someone guides me?" And he invited Philip to come up and sit with him.

            32Now the passage of Scripture which he was reading was this:
            "(AR)HE WAS LED AS A SHEEP TO SLAUGHTER;
            AND AS A LAMB BEFORE ITS SHEARER IS SILENT,
            SO HE DOES NOT OPEN HIS MOUTH.
            33"(AS)IN HUMILIATION HIS JUDGMENT WAS TAKEN AWAY;
            WHO WILL RELATE HIS GENERATION?
            FOR HIS LIFE IS REMOVED FROM THE EARTH."

            34The eunuch answered Philip and said, "Please tell me, of whom does the prophet say this? Of himself or of someone else?"

            35Then Philip (AT)opened his mouth, and (AU)beginning from this Scripture he (AV)preached Jesus to him.

            36As they went along the road they came to some water; and the eunuch said, "Look! Water! (AW)What prevents me from being baptized?"

            37[[a]And Philip said, "If you believe with all your heart, you may." And he answered and said, "I believe that Jesus Christ is the Son of God."]

            38And he ordered the chariot to stop; and they both went down into the water, Philip as well as the eunuch, and he baptized him.

            39When they came up out of the water, (AX)the Spirit of the Lord snatched Philip away; and the eunuch no longer saw him, but went on his way rejoicing.

            Trans people have been loved by our God, accepted by Jesus Christ and welcomed into the kingdom since the beginning of our Lords recorded history. It would be in Dave Welch's interest if he desisted from spreading lies and untruths about Christian trans people and our place in society.

            TransAction ConVergence Survey "Who we are" results

            The people who identify under transgender transsexual unbrella are now embroiled in a epic struggle to identify ourselves. This crisis has brought many splits in our community with the word 'tranny' being at the epicenter.





            There are two arguments, one advocating the use of 'tranny' and one adamantly opposed to it's usage, with both sides supported with valid contentions.

            One contingent of the LGBTQIA spectrum decries the usage of 'tranny' under any circumstances. This group contends that 'tranny' is a pejorative as presently understood, demeaning and demoralizing. This same contingent contends the word 'tranny' has never been accepted widely and in fact is synonymous with other pejoratives such as nigger and conveys the same negative connotations.



            The other argument is for our reclaiming the word 'tranny' thereby establishing our self identity and revolting against modern conventions about the word. This component of our community also righteously calls out the most important tenets of our community, inclusiveness and respect.



            In that this survey was conducted in good faith and all respondents allowed equal opportunities to voice opinions.

            It is revealed that:

            The majority of peoples identifying under the trans umbrella and allies find the word 'tranny' offensive when used by cisgender media since it's portrayal is enviably negative.

            It my hope the people of our community who persist in it's usage and promotion take heed to there own council, respect our communities wishes and desist from this behaviour that is so harmful to us.

            Full responses from survey found here

            Note* All questions were allowed more than more than one response so some answers do not equal 100%.

            11/22/10

            Drag queen "Miss Kimberly" Parties it up at the 2010 London TDOR with a rendition of "I'm a tranny"

            Drag queen "Miss Kimberly", pictured right, regaled the London 2010 TDOR with a rendition of 'I'm a woman' substituting 'tranny' for 'woman'.

            Helen G at the UK based blog "Bird of Paradox" seemed to be incensed, as were as she reported, many transgender people in attendance at the vigil. In a post about the 2010 TDOR Bird of Paradox she writes
            "The use of the t-word last night by the singer at the London TDoR vigil was, in my opinion, both inappropriate and insensitive. Further, to expect all those of us attending the vigil to happily join in with the singalong as though we were partying at a nightclub, was either jaw-droppingly naive or deliberately provocative."

            Why should Helen Boyd be surprised that the 2010 TDOR was desecrated by this man? The attendees weren't upset when he did the same song at the 2009 TDOR. Judging by the laughter of the men room such at the 2009 TDOR like J Jaiden Geirrsson's they thought he was a riot.



            The 2010 London TDOR was a party laughing it up as a cisgender man who while performing drag makes a mockery of trans folk.

            Where is the spine of London's transgender community? Why is the London Trans community complacent, complicit and silent about this atrocity?

            Why has the London TDOR become a drag show? The only things missing from making the London transgender Day of Remembrance a complete insult to our dead was a strip stage, pole and drinks.

            Or maybe the London transgender community will reclaim the 2011 TDOR and hold a event respectful of not just the living, but the dead as well.

            Up dated November 25 2010.
            Corrections.
            Misgendering in title.
            Clarification of Miss Kimberly's gender to "cisgender man".
            Helen Boyd incorrectly identified as 'Bird of Paradox' author.